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If your bedroom is only used for sleeping, it's obviously time to rekindle the passion!  Psychologist Mark Weisner has advice on "Spicing Up" Your Sex Life at Self-Help and Psychology Magazine. When household and career responsibilities get the upper hand, spontaneity goes out the door. You have to plan intimate times together. Make sex dates. Remember the ploys that led to sex Read more...

Dear Suzie, How do I enhance my spiritual relationship using the principles of feng shui and the art of placement? -- C. Dear C., Tantra, in the Sanskrit language, means "to weave." This refers to weaving every aspect of our lives together into one reality. In other words, our spirituality is based on everything we do and are in life. Sexuality is but one of the vehicles to this Read more...

Dear Suzie, I am a 64-year-old male who recognizes the importance of Tantric wisdom. It surprises me that when I do searches on the subject of the power of the eyes in sexual arousal, I find nothing! Why isn't this subject explored more? -- S. Dear S., The eyes are indeed powerful allies. Tantric philosophy sees the open eye as a metaphor for an open life and an open heart. To Read more...

Dear Suzie, My wife is very quiet when we make love. I'd like her to make noise. How do I encourage her? --K. Dear K., How loving of you to use the word "encourage" rather than "make." Making noise during sexual play is a total turn-on and helps us know where our partner is in the sexual response cycle. The signs of arousal and stimulation, especially in women, are Read more...

Dear Suzie, I'm overweight and it's hard for me to enjoy sex due to my body insecurity. How can Tantric lovemaking help me get beyond this fear and help me enjoy sex? -- M. Dear M., Guess what: It's very likely that your partner loves your body -- especially if it responds to touch. Your insecurity is about your own fears and projections. In the South Pacific Islands, the Caribbean Read more...

Dear Suzie, My boyfriend and I are sick of our same bedroom routine. What are some new Tantric techniques and positions that we can try to spice up our love making? -- L. Dear L., The philosophy of Tantra invites each of us to explore, create and risk in ways that produce new understanding and new connections with ourselves and in our relationships. By witnessing our Read more...

A union of bodies can be thrilling, but there are more intimate connections of the mind and soul. Here, we help you discover the deeper level of sex hidden from many -- before you turn to Viagra or other prescription solutions. Take a look back to the special bond between Adam and Eve. The Book of Genesis uses the term "yadah," which means "to know," when describing their Read more...

Dear Suzie, The subject of ear kissing is largely unexplored. What comments do you have regarding this? -- M. Dear M., Great question! Ask yourself, how often have I actually taken the time to discover my partner's erogenous zones? Have I asked her or him what they like, and where and when they like it? When we begin to open up to our partners in these new, subtle ways, we open new doors Read more...

Dear Suzie, I'm overweight and it's hard for me to enjoy sex due to my body insecurity. How can Tantric lovemaking help me get beyond this fear and help me enjoy sex? -- M. Dear M., You know what? It's very likely that your partner loves your body -- especially if it responds to touch. Your insecurity is about your own fears and projections. In the South Pacific Islands, the Read more...

Dear Suzie, My boyfriend and I are sick of our same bedroom routine. What are some new Tantric techniques and positions we can try? -- L. Dear L., The philosophy of Tantra invites each of us to explore, create and risk in ways that produce new understanding and new connections with ourselves and in our relationships. Witnessing our partner, seeing and hearing their truth, and honoring Read more...