Divorce: How to Get It Right and Get on With Your Life

Tips for Negotiating a Settlement

Tips for Negotiating a Settlement

You wouldn't ask a stranger to plan your monthly budget and analyze your bank statements. But this is exactly what happens when your case goes to trial before a judge. "Only a fool goes to trial," says Iva Hauck Girtman, a certified financial planner and certified divorce planner in Lakeland, Florida. It's also a costly endeavor that can set you back tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees. Although negotiating can be grueling, you still have some control over the process.


Don't make hasty decisions

Tips for Negotiating a Settlement

You wouldn't ask a stranger to plan your monthly budget and analyze your bank statements. But this is exactly what happens when your case goes to trial before a judge. "Only a fool goes to trial," says Iva Hauck Girtman, a certified financial planner and certified divorce planner in Lakeland, Florida. It's also a costly endeavor that can set you back tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees. Although negotiating can be grueling, you still have some control over the process.


Don't make hasty decisions

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Figuring Your Taxes

Figuring Your Taxes

If you don't consider the tax implications of dividing your property and signing joint returns, a seemingly fair settlement could become a grave injustice.

First, consult an accountant before you memorialize your divorce agreement in writing, especially if there are tax-sheltered accounts, investments, and businesses to divide. "I'm usually in a position of not knowing anything until after the divorce is final and I'm telling the client that he's going to be wiped out," says Ed Slott, a CPA in Rockville Center, New York.

Figuring Your Taxes

If you don't consider the tax implications of dividing your property and signing joint returns, a seemingly fair settlement could become a grave injustice.

First, consult an accountant before you memorialize your divorce agreement in writing, especially if there are tax-sheltered accounts, investments, and businesses to divide. "I'm usually in a position of not knowing anything until after the divorce is final and I'm telling the client that he's going to be wiped out," says Ed Slott, a CPA in Rockville Center, New York.

Dividing Assets, Part 2

Dividing Assets, Part 2

Dividing assets such as investment accounts and pensions may seem painfully complicated. Your lawyer can help demystify the process but you may also want to consult a financial planner to help project your future needs. A new breed of experts, known as certified divorce planners, specialize in the financial aspects of divorce. You can find one through the Institute for Certified Divorce Planners. In addition, knowing a few basic principles can help you ask the right questions:

The options for your options

Dividing Assets, Part 2

Dividing assets such as investment accounts and pensions may seem painfully complicated. Your lawyer can help demystify the process but you may also want to consult a financial planner to help project your future needs. A new breed of experts, known as certified divorce planners, specialize in the financial aspects of divorce. You can find one through the Institute for Certified Divorce Planners. In addition, knowing a few basic principles can help you ask the right questions:

The options for your options

Dividing Assets, Part I

Dividing Assets, Part I

The grueling process of deciding who gets what is first governed by emotion and then by the laws of community property or equitable distribution.

Dividing Assets, Part I

The grueling process of deciding who gets what is first governed by emotion and then by the laws of community property or equitable distribution.

What Do You Owe and Own?

What Do You Owe and Own?

Dividing money is a painstaking and significant part of the divorce process. Making an irrational decision can cost you dearly. Try to distance yourself from the emotional storm and view your marriage as a business.

Think of the obvious, and then beyond.

What Do You Owe and Own?

Dividing money is a painstaking and significant part of the divorce process. Making an irrational decision can cost you dearly. Try to distance yourself from the emotional storm and view your marriage as a business.

Think of the obvious, and then beyond.

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