10 Sexy Seducers

Delight the Senses

While the effects of most "aphrodisiacs" are medically unproven, legend has it that foods like chocolate, asparagus and oysters can be therapeutic to your libido. But there's no doubt that certain foods are sexy -- it's all about presentation and delivery!

Pull yourself out of your normal dining routine and create an evening of sensual delight. Arrange a tray with a variety of foods that appeal to the senses of smell, touch and taste. You might select raspberries, dark chocolate, cinnamon candy, champagne, asparagus, stuffed mushrooms or whatever else you and your partner enjoy eating.

Go to the Driveway Drive-In

As busy adults, we often make excuses for not doing things we find enjoyable. We say that we have too little time to play, too many bills to pay and not enough energy to do anything. We forget how important it is to make time for the small but necessary things, like each other.

Eat Breakfast in Bed

On a rainy Saturday when neither of you has any pressing engagements, slip out of bed early and whip up a special breakfast. You'll put a new spin on an old favorite by bringing your partner breakfast in bed, then feeding it to him or her!

Whisper Sweet Nothings

While different people respond to different levels of stimulus, most people consider their ears to be a major erogenous zone -- for good reason. Due to an unusually high density of nerve endings, combined with fine, nearly invisible hairs, even the lightest touch or breath can be very stimulating.

Try whispering a few naughty or suggestive phrases -- whatever you are both comfortable with -- in his or her ear. Follow up the wordplay with a light nibble, lick or tickle, then let your tongue or fingers trail down his or her neck. You'll love the response you receive!

Surprise Your Partner

On a normal weekday -- not a birthday, anniversary or other special day -- bring home a small gift that will appeal to the senses, such as a bouquet of flowers, a romantic CD, a scented candle, a box of chocolates, a book of erotic photography or a pair of silk underwear. Have the store wrap the gift to make it truly special, then watch your partner's eyes light up when he or she realizes you brought her a present "just because." The element of surprise can be very arousing!

One of the biggest mistakes we make in our relationships is neglecting
to keep "dating" one another. While you'll probably never recapture the
feeling of puppy love, you can improve your relationship by setting
aside special time for each other every week. Try to make this date a
regular occurrence, something you look forward to throughout the week.
Hopefully, the attraction you build on your "date" night will linger
over the following days, bringing sexiness and romance to even the