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  • SuzieHeumann

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    My husband has become impotent since a motorbike accident. He also has revealed some dark experience as a child and the whole topic of sex has become a source of anger and rejection. I feel impotent, as I cannot raise a response in my man. I also feel I cannot practice as a midwife as I used to -- it all is around sex and the product of sex. I feel pretty miserable. I was so alive and passionate about life and now, well, it is sad. We are seeing therapists -- but I hope one day we can do this Tantric thing and be happy again ...

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    Life is difficult enough when things happen to us that we can see coming, but to have something like this happen fast, without warning, is even harder.
    I have empathy for you. I don't personally equate midwifery and birthing with "sex." It has much more to do with bringing a new human read more...

  • SuzieHeumann

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    Can you please advise me on how to maintain the hardness of my erection? I don’t suffer from premature ejaculation but I lose my hardness sometimes when I am trying to pleasure my partner.

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    There a re a lot of things you can do to help you achieve and maintain a firmer erection. If you do even some of them, you should be good to go for a long time to come! It's all about blood flow -- increasing it and keeping it. Let’s look at your general health first.
    If you smoke -- stop. It's read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    I'll be traveling alone on my next vacation. I'm pretty independent, but I'm a little afraid of getting lonely. Do you have any advice for single travelers?

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    I often travel alone when I am setting up new tours. I do go through times when I get a bit lonely but in general I love to travel solo as there seems to be more of an opportunity to meet locals than if I am with one other person and appear as a unit.
    To avoid getting lonely I'd stay at B&B read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    I'd like to travel to Europe for the holiday season, but with the weak dollar I'm afraid I won't be able to afford it. Can you help me save some money on my trip?

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    Having just returned from 3 week in Portugal and Croatia I remain excited about Europe, even with the weak dollar.
    I've seen some amazing deals on TravelZoo.com which are all inclusive holidays at very reasonable prices. This site scans the internet to find the best deals, they sell our quickly read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    My wife and I have a lifelong dream of traveling to Africa, but we're concerned about our safety and our health (at 60, we've got willing minds but aren't the adventurers we once were). Do you think it's safe to go to Africa for people like us? Can you recommend tour groups or places to stay?

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    YES YES YES!!! Most of the 3,000 folks I've traveled with are 50-70+, you are young!! Africa is a top destination for your age group.
    I'd suggest joining a reputable small group tour. They can provide you with references, have made all the necessary safety precautions, offer you a "through read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    I'm feeling the nip in the air and the leaves are changing colors. Can you recommend a great travel destination for Autumn?

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    Almost every place is great in Autumn!
    If you talking September/October here are some of my favorites: For years I led bike tours in NE. Vermont, particularly the North East Kingdom, is one of my favorite destinations. Across the border in Quebec you have the Eastern Townships which offer an read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    Now that the kids are out of the house and my career has slowed down a bit, I'd love to take a trip to "find myself" a little. Where's a good place to travel for quiet contemplation and also mind-opening adventure?

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    There are so many options for you! One of the first things to do might be to spend some time writing down what you would want to have as part of this experience. Here are a few questions:
    Do you want to be alone or with others (in a small group or at a retreat)?
    If with a others, would you like read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    I like to read when I travel, and I especially like to be reading about the place that I'm traveling in while I'm there. My husband and I are going to Prague soon, can you recommend some travel reading for us?

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    My favorite source for non-traditional travel books is a little company called Longitude Books (http://www.longitudebooks.com) run by two friends of mine, Darrel Shoeling and Daniel Kaizer, out of a loft space in NYC. They actually create the reading lists for most of the top small travel companies read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    Since you've traveled so much, I bet you've heard a huge variety of indigenous music. What was the most musical place you've ever been?

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    For me, Peru and Ireland are two of the most musical places I've traveled.
    Peru is such a sacred place. Whether I'm listening to a quena, a traditional Andean instrument, played by porters along the Inca Trail, or hearing and experiencing the traditional festivals such as Inti Raymi, the read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    Can you recommend a great travel destination during the Autumn months?

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    Almost every place is great in Autumn! For years I led bike tours in New England. Vermont, particularly the North East Kingdom, is one of my favorite destinations. Across the border in Quebec you have the Eastern Townships which offer an International experience close to home. Later in the season read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    Now that the kids are out of the house and my career has slowed down a bit, I’d love to take a trip to “find myself” a little. Where’s a good place to travel for quiet contemplation and also mind-opening adventure?

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    There are so many options for you! One of the first things to do might be to spend some time writing down what you would want to have as part of this experience. Here are a few questions:
    1) Do you want to be alone or with others (in a small group or at a retreat)?
    2) If with a others, would read more...

  • KathyDragon

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    Since you’ve traveled so much, I bet you’ve heard a huge variety of indigenous music. What was the most musical place you’ve ever been?

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    For me, Peru and Ireland are two of the most musical places I’ve traveled.
    Peru is such a sacred place. Whether I’m listening to Aquena, a traditional Andean instrument played by porters along the Inca Trail, or hearing and experiencing the traditional festivals such as Inti Raymi, or the read more...

  • JacquelineMarcell

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    My parents have dementia and need my help with some basic things. I’m struggling with the new responsibilities and didn’t expect it to happen so soon. Your articles on ThirdAge are so helpful, but I feel like I need a caregiving course. Can you recommend some resources to help me feel less alone and to help me give my parents the best care?

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    Hi, so sorry to hear you are struggling with your new role as a caregiver to your folks, but congratulations for reaching out for help! Even though there are over 50 million caregivers in the US, the common thread I have observed is that caregivers often feel alone. When I took care of my parents read more...

  • JacquelineMarcell

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    Does alternative health have a place in dealing with elder care?

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    When our health, the most precious gift we will ever have, is in jeopardy, patients and families should be able to try whatever medical and alternative treatments they wish. And since so many of us have come into contact with health care professionals who have led us in the wrong direction, trust read more...

  • PaulBBrown

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    It doesn’t make me feel any better, but I discovered the other day that the $8,000 I owe in total on three different credit cards puts me in good company -- I am the typical American.  Any thoughts about how to reduce my debt?

    Bill, White Plains, N.Y.

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    When you find yourself in a hole, the first rule is this: Stop digging.
    And you can do that in four maybe-not-so-easy-but-absolutely-necessary steps.
    1. TODAY, take the two credit cards that are charging the most in interest out of your wallet and cut them in half with a pair of scissors.
    You’ll read more...

  • PaulBBrown

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    About two years ago I rolled over about $100,000 of 401K money from a previous job into a conservative mutual fund. I am 50 years old, and grateful that it's earning 2.3% interest, rather than sitting in an aggressive fund where it could be down 10% to 30%. On the other hand, I don't feel as though it is earning as much as it could. What would you do with it? I have other retirement money—another $400,000 or so—in diversified funds—that has taken a beating. Would you recommend I keep this money as is or move it to something else? Thank you.

    Karen, Eden Prairie, MN

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    Karen, first off, you should feel good about the decision you made.
    When it comes to thinking about how to pay for retirement, you need to mentally place your money into two buckets.
    In bucket No. 1 is the money you are going to spend. These are the funds that are going to replace the income you read more...

  • VictoriaBazeley

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    I’ve just went to a professional astrologer for the first time and I’m totally fascinated by the tradition. Can you recommend any books to help me learn more?

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    I recommend "Linda Goodman's Sun Signs" by Linda Goodman (Bantam, 1984) for an entertaining introduction to the zodiac signs. You might want to look at Steven Forrest's "The Inner Sky" (Seven Paws, 2007) as another introductory text. Some people also recommend "Astrology read more...

  • VictoriaBazeley

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    Where do astrology and spirituality cross paths? I am a person of faith and am curious to know your thoughts.

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    Where astrology and spirituality cross paths is different for each person. Many naturally spiritual people are attracted to astrology because it gives evidence for a divine order at work in our everyday lives. Astrology also confronts one with the mystery and beauty of cosmic forces, and for many read more...

  • VictoriaBazeley

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    Can one be religious and still believe in the concepts of astrology?

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    Absolutely. Literally millions of religious people around the world follow astrology without any contradictions to their faith. In fact, you don't have to 'believe' in astrology to find it useful. It might help to know that astrology is simply the study of natural cycles in the universe.
    So read more...

  • PaulBBrown

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    Everyone who gives financial advice says the first thing I need to do is create a budget. Is that really true?
    Katie, Columbus Ohio

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    To your very simple question, I offer a very simple answer: Maybe you do, maybe you don’t.
    Let us explain.
    Yes, you need some kind of understanding on what you do—and will—spend money on. But no, you probably don’t need a formal written document.
    There are two reasons we say that.
    First, if read more...

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