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Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our CUAO ("Creature Unlike Any Other") discussion is a place to post and reply about everything that makes you the best CUAO that you can be. The focus is on dignity and virtue. Its not about holding up an ideal CUAO against yourself. We are not trading ourselves in for a better model, "But First the Product -- You!," the makings of a CUAO.

"You will find Melanies everywhere you go. Watch them carefully. Observe how they have made self contentment and independence an art form."

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our TR SOS Board has been set up to field Rules challenges occuring right now and up to seven days in advance. At TR SOS, Posters and Responders are asked to abide by the folllowing routine.

For POSTERS at TR SOS:
1. Join Thirdage and LOG IN.

2. Post at PROFILES first please.

3. Here at TR SOS please use the title box! Type: "HELP! [your phrase]." For example, "HELP! Last Minute Date." This format is needed for stocking our "outline of messages" as a first aid kit and helps with keeping track.

4. Use PROFILES to tell the entire story, TR SOS for burning questions and other Titles for "follow up."

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our TR Ex discussion is a place to post and reply about our knowing that men are not always right and that it is sometimes hard to forgive and forget. But try -- you'll be amazed at how much better you feel when you don't hold on to your anger!

The Rules encourage women to get their anger out in a Rules support group.

"Because you love yourself you are no longer interested in men who ignore you, cheat on you, hurt you, and, of course any man who can live without you."...But who are these guys? What happened?

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our TR Online discussion is a place to post and reply about doing The Rules online and the journey to Date Zero, meeting each other in person for the first time!

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our Salon discussion is a place to post and reply with friends about love and whether you are doing or not doing The Rules (as long as you are not talking to a man first, double spacing between paragraphs and your tiara is on straight).

For formal TR advice visit one of our special titles. Our strictest support is at Bootcamp.

"Wait until the date is over and then you can call ten girlfriends and analyze the date for hours". We agree that people should have the opportunity to hear all sides in accepting or rejecting The Rules for what they are. The level of appreciation and involvement in The Rules or Rules Support is not up for discussion.

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our Janitor discussion is a place to post and reply about "What is What." We have frisbees, dustpans, a megaphone, a red carpet, umbrellas, an old pamphlet on nutrition, posting tips and tricks, a suggestion box, a complaints counter...A Janitor?

"Difficult but not impossible to reach." We just take turns.

Welcome to The Rules Support Group and our TR Men discussion. "Why? Well, some men simply wanted to thank us for telling women what they knew to be true about relationships."

"Men who respond to The Rules are not sick or stupid, but quite normal and healthy. Your average guy."

Men are not restricted to posting only at TR Men. Additionally, The Rules II has "Rules Tips For Men."

"We wrote The Rules to help women enjoy dating, not to confuse men."

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our Redflags discussion is a place to post and reply about what is happening FULL TILT. Is this going to hurt? With The Rules and many other resources at our disposal we can equip ourselves to recognize and respond to Redflags with tons of dignity.

"Everybody benefits."

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our TR Exclusive discussion is about getting the man you want to propose! By doing The Rules you know where the relationship is going long before he pops the question. You sense a warm, open feeling emanating from him. It's a committed relationship -- he's calling you regularly and asking you out for Saturday nights for several months. It's an exclusive relationship -- he's serious about you and it's just a matter of time before he pops the question, as opposed to he's dating you until someone better comes along.