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Don't make your mom your diary. I caution mothers not to read their little girls' diaries, because that invasion inhibits the formation of a daughter's self. A girl needs to own her own story. It's part of her identity. ... View slideshow >>

Don't make your mom your best friend. She's your mother and you love her, but best friends should be people other than mom. She probably has her own best friends, who are able to support her as yours do you. ... View slideshow >>

Beware of envy -- yes, even from dear old mom. Don't expect her to always be thrilled with your great career moments, for example, when she has perhaps never tasted personal economic success herself. ... View slideshow >>

Don't keep making your mother responsible for you. If you're in trouble and you need her help, go to her with a plan that allows her to help you on her terms. This demonstrates respect and maturity. ... View slideshow >>

Your sex life, perhaps more than anything else, helps to define you as a separate individual. Telling mom the intimate details lessens your tie to the men in question and keeps you her little girl. Also, has it ever occurred to you that she (and many other people) just may not want to hear about it? ... View slideshow >>

By Nancy Friday Contrary to popular opinion, moms don't know everything -- nor do they want to. Get the scoop on the things you should never disclose to your own mother, then keep your lips sealed. ... View slideshow >>

There are some things that you just don't tell your mommy. Keeping your secrets quiet helps to create a healthy separation from your mother. This begins early and continues throughout life. ... View slideshow >>