The Six Dimensions of Divorce

Close Shop, Move On

"I didn't mean to drop that cyanide tablet in her new boyfriend's drink," he said.

There are many unhealthy ways to deal with the emotional ramifications of a divorce. Instead of using all that energy in a negative way, try to channel it into the process of transforming yourself through the transition. The best way to do this is to develop a plan to help lead you through the jungle of feelings before you wind up in an emotional quicksand. Buy a journal and get started now:

Document the Past

Of all the places that you've ever hoped to find yourself at this
time in your life, divorce court is presumably rock bottom on the list.

Unfortunately, in almost half of all marriages, these hallowed halls
are an unwelcome financial pit stop on the way to achieving the larger
goals of a comfortable retirement and empty-nest independence.