intimacy

Has sex become routine for you and your mate? Are you both ill-matched in your desires and abilities to please each other? Many marriages and relationships are wonderful until the bedroom door closes, and a lifetime of baggage is dumped on the loving bed!

How do we ask for what we want and need without hurting our lovers' feelings?

How do we ask for more? How do we give more, when we lose interest, and still want to please our mate?

We can all get by with a little help from our friends. Please open up and help each other. --ChaChaDC and Kip

This forum will explore issues relating to being over 50 and self-identified as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered.

There are many of us in this society who are over the age of 50 and find that we are men attracted to men, women attracted to women or we are attracted to both men and women. In addition, there are many of us who feel we either like to dress up in the clothes of the opposite gender or feel that we are men trapped in the bodies of women or women trapped in the bodies of men.

Welcome to The Rules Support Group.

Our TR Sex discussion is a place to post and reply about kissing on the first date...and then what?

"Men merely want to lie down next to someone they care about when they are feeling strong emotions."

Hey all, My husband and I have been happily married for 30 years. But sometimes I wonder if we're not as close as we once were. It's not that we fight -- we almost never do. And we talk a lot, and have sex regularly. But we don't seem very interested in spending much "quality time" together. For instance, we used to take at least two vacations a year, but we haven't traveled at all the last five years. And we never go out on "dates" anymore. The scary part is that neither of us seems to mind. It's like we're satisfied just sharing the house. Am I being silly? Is it enough just to love each other?

--CA