Six Ways to Drive a Woman Wild

By Suzie Human
Tantra.com

Ancient Taoist and Tantric philosophy explains that "men's sexual energy comes from the earth and women's sexual energy comes from the heavens." Substitute "earth" with genitals and "heaven" with heart and you have the full meaning of this saying!

Though it really isn't that cut and dry, men do tend to want sex and then intimacy, while women tend to want intimacy before sex. In light of this fact, men may need a little help in figuring out how to drive women wild!

1. Listen carefully to her. During sexual encounters, focus on what she says she needs. If necessary, ask her for clarification and give her all the time she needs to feel complete with the communication.

2. Slow down when it comes to touching. When you are giving sensual touch, imagine that your fingertips feel more erotic to you than to your partner. Use your focused attention to enhance the experience coming from your fingertips. This will guarantee that your lover gets exquisitely caressed.

3. Explore her whole body. Use your tongue, fingers and hands to worship her.  With both of your hands, softly caress her face as you tell her what you appreciate about her.

4. Tease her! Most women take a little longer to warm up, especially as they age. Don't go straight for the genitals. Tickle and tease her inner thighs. Suck her toes erotically, paying special attention with your tongue to the inner areas. As lightly as you can, caress her breasts. Kiss and lightly bite the nape of her neck.

5. Try this technique that will amaze her. During a romantic encounter, ask your partner to show you exactly where on her clitoris she is most sensitive. She will most likely say, "Well, all over." If that's the case, she's wrong -- but don't tell her that. Simply suggest that she move slowly over the whole area and then answer the question again. She should discover, to her amazement, that one area is much more sensitive than any other. It may very well be to her upper left. Then, focus your attention there.

6. Add G-spot stimulation when you give her oral caresses. Learn about the G-spot. Use your middle finger to gently explore her as you stimulate her clitoris. Ask for feedback on your touch, stroke, pressure and positioning. (Women can usually take quite a bit of pressure on the G-area.)

Women are simple -- they want to be adored! If you give 100 percent during your time together and fill her up with abundant love, you will get back your heart's desire.

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