Health
Sexual Healing
These days, the word "healing" pops up a lot in connection with everything from physical health to emotional health to psychic health to sexual health. This liberal use suggests a general trend toward promoting healthy whole-body systems that better serve us as human beings. It's a mind-body-spirit lifestyle approach.
But the ancient Tantrics were ahead of our way of thinking and promoted this mind-body-spirit philosophy of living through various means with the Kama Sutra, the Artha Sutra and the Dharma Sutra. The Artha Sutra dealt with acquiring a comfortable means of income and survival, while the Dharma Sutra presented the scriptures for moral values. The Kama Sutra prescribed sexual techniques and the means by which a person could create an optimum degree of sensual and sexual pleasure in his or her life. These three scriptures were the guides to a fully functioning life.
Western societies, however, don't value the pursuit of a happy, active sexual life for "morally upstanding" people. This is unfortunate, because scientists have proven that love, care and sex can lead to a longer life for both sexes.
Good-quality sexual activity helps us heal our sense of separateness from one another. It helps create balanced immune systems and adds to the "spice of life." We feel more appreciated and cared for when we share erotic time.
Kissing, being close to each other physically, and shared breathing passes the essential pheromones our skin and breath gives off back and forth to each other. This creates heightened attraction in both sexes. A spiral of attraction grows between two people when they are near each other more.
Because many of us don't acknowledge the importance of our sexual lives, we need to start consciously creating the time to have sensual sex. This idea may seem like an oxymoron to many people who believe that sex is supposed to be a spontaneous act. Yet, if you leave it to that, you'll be disappointed in the frequency of sex in your life.
It's actually simple. If you want to have more sex, spend more time touching, kissing, sending love letters, bathing together, going away for long weekends, and even scheduling it in your weekly planner.
Make a commitment to introduce more adventurous activities into your lovemaking. This doesn't have to be a scary ordeal; just try something easy like reading erotic literature to each other or trying a new position once and a while.
One thing that stops people from trying new positions is that they forget to bring a sense of fun to the bedroom. You don't have to get it right, you just have to laugh and have fun with it. Performance isn't the issue, exploring is. In this way you're healing more than just your body. You are healing your spirit, too.
Make a conscious effort to spend creative, sexual time together for general well-being and healing. Be silly, sensual, heartfelt, open and vulnerable, and learn new techniques to keep you growing and expanding. These are just the things to keep you young -- and healthy -- at heart.
Find the erotic Tantra products needed to connect with your date and learn about Kama Sutra, Tantra and other sexual disciplines from Suzie Human at Tantra.com.
But the ancient Tantrics were ahead of our way of thinking and promoted this mind-body-spirit philosophy of living through various means with the Kama Sutra, the Artha Sutra and the Dharma Sutra. The Artha Sutra dealt with acquiring a comfortable means of income and survival, while the Dharma Sutra presented the scriptures for moral values. The Kama Sutra prescribed sexual techniques and the means by which a person could create an optimum degree of sensual and sexual pleasure in his or her life. These three scriptures were the guides to a fully functioning life.
Western societies, however, don't value the pursuit of a happy, active sexual life for "morally upstanding" people. This is unfortunate, because scientists have proven that love, care and sex can lead to a longer life for both sexes.
Good-quality sexual activity helps us heal our sense of separateness from one another. It helps create balanced immune systems and adds to the "spice of life." We feel more appreciated and cared for when we share erotic time.
Kissing, being close to each other physically, and shared breathing passes the essential pheromones our skin and breath gives off back and forth to each other. This creates heightened attraction in both sexes. A spiral of attraction grows between two people when they are near each other more.
Because many of us don't acknowledge the importance of our sexual lives, we need to start consciously creating the time to have sensual sex. This idea may seem like an oxymoron to many people who believe that sex is supposed to be a spontaneous act. Yet, if you leave it to that, you'll be disappointed in the frequency of sex in your life.
It's actually simple. If you want to have more sex, spend more time touching, kissing, sending love letters, bathing together, going away for long weekends, and even scheduling it in your weekly planner.
Make a commitment to introduce more adventurous activities into your lovemaking. This doesn't have to be a scary ordeal; just try something easy like reading erotic literature to each other or trying a new position once and a while.
One thing that stops people from trying new positions is that they forget to bring a sense of fun to the bedroom. You don't have to get it right, you just have to laugh and have fun with it. Performance isn't the issue, exploring is. In this way you're healing more than just your body. You are healing your spirit, too.
Make a conscious effort to spend creative, sexual time together for general well-being and healing. Be silly, sensual, heartfelt, open and vulnerable, and learn new techniques to keep you growing and expanding. These are just the things to keep you young -- and healthy -- at heart.
Find the erotic Tantra products needed to connect with your date and learn about Kama Sutra, Tantra and other sexual disciplines from Suzie Human at Tantra.com.
