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Most human beings feel the pull to be partnered, especially as we get older. For those who long to be in a relationship, first read Gary Caine's thoughts about Being Single at The Singles Cafe.

Caine writes that we first need to be comfortable with ourselves before we are ready to be comfortable with someone else. He advises taking time to like yourself and gain enough self-confidence and self-respect to attract an equally confident partner.

Too many people equate being alone with loneliness, but Caine says they are completely different. Being alone is not a bad thing; it's a time to do the things you wouldn't be able to do if you were in a committed relationship.

If you can be comfortable being alone, you may find you won't stay alone for long. Caine says, "If you can learn to relax, enjoy life, and be open to new relationships you will dramatically increase your chances of finding someone special."