Help for Single Moms and Pops

It wasn't what you had planned. Yes, you had imagined peering into the crib, watching your child take those first shaky steps, playing the tooth fairy, coaching the Little League team or attending that high school graduation. Only you always thought that your spouse would be by your side.

Now, in midlife, you find yourself alone and faced with the responsibilities of single parenthood. Undoubtedly, it's a daunting challenge, but on the Web you can find resources to help you in the years ahead.

First, review the basics with the top 10 single parenting tips. Though you may have heeded advice such as "Do not treat your child as a peer," or "Establish schedules and predictable routines" as part of a two-parent household, these words of wisdom take on new meaning when you're on your own.

Many sites are devoted specifically to creating support and community for those raising kids as a one-some. Making Lemonade and the Single Parents Network are just two of dozens of sites that all offer a wealth of information. Get online and get started on your research to build your support system.

One more thing. Did you know that in 1984 Congress declared March 21 Single Parent's Day? It's true! Mark it on your calendar so you'll not forget.