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Find Your Way to Blazing Bedroom Passion

If your bedroom is only used for sleeping, it's obviously time to rekindle the passion!  Psychologist Mark Weisner has advice on "Spicing Up" Your Sex Life at Self-Help and Psychology Magazine.

When household and career responsibilities get the upper hand, spontaneity goes out the door. You have to plan intimate times together. Make sex dates. Remember the ploys that led to sex when you were a new twosome. A romantic dinner still can be a prelude to pleasure.

While we're on the subject of dinner, try making a list of sexual preferences in the form of a menu. Include appetizers (foreplay), main course (intercourse or acts leading to orgasm) and dessert (afterplay). Exchange a complete menu with your partner.

Use your imagination -- experiment -- play with one another. Understand that what happens in your relationship is generally reflected elsewhere. If your relationship is in trouble, difficulties will frequently show up in the bedroom.